How do i gain confidence??
Question: after my best friend turned on me i stopped hanging out with most popular people now some of them call me ugly.....sometimes i feel very ugly...but see i have an amazing bf who every girl wants..alot of guys like me.....but yet some girls call me ugly and it brings me down...i am constantly putting myself down to wheere my friends tell me to shutup and my bf always says im hot...but i always look in mirrors and wonder y i am so ugly?...i dont see wat everyone else sees?y?i no you will say low self esteem....but i know all my friends think im pretty but how can i just have the confidence to go thru the day without putting myself down?i dont understand how they can think im this really pretty girl when wat i see is a hideoues ugly freak?its like they see someone i dont even no
Answers: by just being who u are
don't let other girls put you down. Know that they are only speaking beacuse they are jealous they are not like you. Just don't listen to them and listen to the good things that other people tell you.
wen people say ure ugly, that means therye soooo ugly, and there jealous of you, meaning ure GORGEOUS!! k, i went through the same thing. u just have to learn to be happy in ure own skin. its great u have a bf and he must be sooo smart to think ure gorgeous, becasue u r!! dont listen to people. there just jealous cuz ur 53298349843934743x more pretty then them. Sit in front of the mirror and say all ure positive things and say im gorgeous say good things to ureself. dont stress.
i think its time you really search for the beauty inside you and you also need to start trusting yourself.the best would be to trust yourself and believe that you are so confident and you will make it through the day.or if that doesnt work you know what puts your enemies down is forgiving them and drawing them closer though that may seem like you are sucking up on them but trust me it will help.be nice to them let them see the beauty inside you tho it will hurt you in the inside but at the end of the day you will feel better than them coz you did good and they didnt.so draw your enemies closer.they are jus jealous of you
Dont listen to what other people have to say about you! you have to tell yourself your beautiful. Go to school and tell yourself that your gonna have a great day and NOONE is gonna bring you down!
They're jealous.
Every time you see yourself in the mirror, think of something positive about yourself.
Don't be afraid, to give yourself pep talks when you're around these hawkish girls. Think of something that you really like about yourself -- even if it's the underwear you have on. Remind yourself, that they probably don't have underwear on as cute as you do, etc.
Also, spend time alone, in your underwear, so that you feel more comfortable about yourself. Cover up with sheets and read in bed, etc. But just do that, and you'll feel more confident.
Remember to eat a healthy diet, and drink lots of water. Think about taking these health supplements to help you mindframe:
- niacin
- evenning primrose oil
- flax seed oil
- magnesium
They'll help you look glowier, and feel better about yourself.
Sweetheart Stop! Do not let other peoples jealousy bring you down! You do realize they are just jealous right. Start gaining confidence by focusing on the inside (are you a good person) not how hot you are to your bf or others. This is just as much your world as anyone Else's, and attitude goes a long way. I had friends in high school who were jealous of me too. They would be competitive and try to tare me down so they felt better about themselves. Looking back, it was just such a waste of time! Some things that help build confidence are accomplishments. Set goals for YOU and stick to them. Be it grades, eating healthy, saving money, running a 5K, writing for the school paper/yearbook, ect. Get involved and achieve something for YOUrself. These are the things you will remember, not unhappy, fake, insecure, selfish girls. Happy people are pretty. So look for ways to make yourself happier from within! Smile!
I feel the same way (look in my profile in questions and see the wonderful answers!) with the low self-esteem. But I'll give better advice. You sound cool enough as it is, and we girls have so much more guts than guys, bitching off all the time. Anyway, you sound beautiful. Looking into things deeply shows there's a real pure heart in you. Tainted hearts avoid facing the realization of their heart by tainting it so much they cannot see it. They run away. Like those stuck up b**ches that bully you. But you face your problems head on, and doing that makes you realize things (like how I admired how my crush seemed so perfect rather than loving him). How do you gain confidence? Read the answers you got and see how much people care, or read poems to see how much people aren't that different from you (particularly me). Try writing (whether poems or stories) and give your pent up feelings into it. Slowly you'll get better and the feedback you recieve always will warm the heart.
Answers: by just being who u are
don't let other girls put you down. Know that they are only speaking beacuse they are jealous they are not like you. Just don't listen to them and listen to the good things that other people tell you.
wen people say ure ugly, that means therye soooo ugly, and there jealous of you, meaning ure GORGEOUS!! k, i went through the same thing. u just have to learn to be happy in ure own skin. its great u have a bf and he must be sooo smart to think ure gorgeous, becasue u r!! dont listen to people. there just jealous cuz ur 53298349843934743x more pretty then them. Sit in front of the mirror and say all ure positive things and say im gorgeous say good things to ureself. dont stress.
i think its time you really search for the beauty inside you and you also need to start trusting yourself.the best would be to trust yourself and believe that you are so confident and you will make it through the day.or if that doesnt work you know what puts your enemies down is forgiving them and drawing them closer though that may seem like you are sucking up on them but trust me it will help.be nice to them let them see the beauty inside you tho it will hurt you in the inside but at the end of the day you will feel better than them coz you did good and they didnt.so draw your enemies closer.they are jus jealous of you
Dont listen to what other people have to say about you! you have to tell yourself your beautiful. Go to school and tell yourself that your gonna have a great day and NOONE is gonna bring you down!
They're jealous.
Every time you see yourself in the mirror, think of something positive about yourself.
Don't be afraid, to give yourself pep talks when you're around these hawkish girls. Think of something that you really like about yourself -- even if it's the underwear you have on. Remind yourself, that they probably don't have underwear on as cute as you do, etc.
Also, spend time alone, in your underwear, so that you feel more comfortable about yourself. Cover up with sheets and read in bed, etc. But just do that, and you'll feel more confident.
Remember to eat a healthy diet, and drink lots of water. Think about taking these health supplements to help you mindframe:
- niacin
- evenning primrose oil
- flax seed oil
- magnesium
They'll help you look glowier, and feel better about yourself.
Sweetheart Stop! Do not let other peoples jealousy bring you down! You do realize they are just jealous right. Start gaining confidence by focusing on the inside (are you a good person) not how hot you are to your bf or others. This is just as much your world as anyone Else's, and attitude goes a long way. I had friends in high school who were jealous of me too. They would be competitive and try to tare me down so they felt better about themselves. Looking back, it was just such a waste of time! Some things that help build confidence are accomplishments. Set goals for YOU and stick to them. Be it grades, eating healthy, saving money, running a 5K, writing for the school paper/yearbook, ect. Get involved and achieve something for YOUrself. These are the things you will remember, not unhappy, fake, insecure, selfish girls. Happy people are pretty. So look for ways to make yourself happier from within! Smile!
I feel the same way (look in my profile in questions and see the wonderful answers!) with the low self-esteem. But I'll give better advice. You sound cool enough as it is, and we girls have so much more guts than guys, bitching off all the time. Anyway, you sound beautiful. Looking into things deeply shows there's a real pure heart in you. Tainted hearts avoid facing the realization of their heart by tainting it so much they cannot see it. They run away. Like those stuck up b**ches that bully you. But you face your problems head on, and doing that makes you realize things (like how I admired how my crush seemed so perfect rather than loving him). How do you gain confidence? Read the answers you got and see how much people care, or read poems to see how much people aren't that different from you (particularly me). Try writing (whether poems or stories) and give your pent up feelings into it. Slowly you'll get better and the feedback you recieve always will warm the heart.
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