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BOY problems...PLEASE help me!??


Question: I like this guy who likes me back (one of his best friends told me and his mom.) and I havn't told him I like him but one of the girls i babysit for did like 2 months ago. HES SUPER SHY!!!!! no joke like this is the 1st girl he's EVER liked that likes him back.
He left 4 spring break 2 weeks ago and he came back last night and today at TKD practice I get to see him and now my questions.
1. Can I say i missed him??
2. can I say i realized how much you mean to me or is that too outgoing for him??
3. should i tell him i like him if so how??

THANK YOU SOOOOO much!
have a good day!
-Danielle
Answers: Any guy would be glad to have a girl approach him.
Most of the time, a guy is too worried about being shot down, so he doesn't even try to talk to a girl.
Go ahead. It's better than wondering what if...? forever.
I would build a friendship with him so as he feels comfortable around you before telling him that you like him. Tell him you missed him, but in a friendly way. Let him break out of his shell before you tell him you like him, or you might scare him off.
never b shy cuz i use ta b and guy dont like it say watever u is true... it u really miss him say that but if u did dont juss wateva u feel and please answer my new qeustion plzzz
um well u dont wanna come off to strong. the one thing i've learned about shy guys is that they can kinda get scared away if u come off too strong. i wouldnt say numbers 2 and 3. u could kinda tell him number 1 in a very subtle flirty way. but i wouldnt rush up to him and confess ur love for him. especially if he doesnt talk a lot. trust me. i know how it is b/c im in the same place. u have to take it slow. i hope that helps! good luck!
Best thing would be to be honnest with him,
Talk in private with him if he's shy,

At least you have tried,

Why wouldn't it work ? :-)
put out
tell him that you like him, and next time u ask something, catagorize it properly!!!!!
How old are you people?
If under 16: tell him you missed him, you like him, and you want to get to become his friend
16 - 18: tell him you like him, and you would like to get to know him better.
Over 18: run away.
I f you're sure that he likes you back, but you know he's shy about it all, talk to him when no ones around...you COULD tell him you missed him quickly and a fast hug and cute peck on the cheek...my hubby is 25 and he' still gets butterflies in his stomach when I do it... or ask him how his trip went and if he missed you(like this: so i heard you missed me... and have a cute smile going on and kiss him on the cheek quickly and leave like you need to go do some thing important..be cute, have fun but don't embarrass him in front of anyone
Good luck!
~Marilyn*~
i agree with that girl you shoul deff. say 1 very flirtasiloy and then kinda giggle walk about 5 steps away from him turn back around and give a wink
tell him that u missed him
Well, I used to be a shy boy (although i don't think i was ever as shy as your friend). I think if i was this guy i would appreciate it if you said you had missed me and it would start me thinking.....i wouldn't say (yet) how much you mean to me or i like you (points 2 & 3) as it's a bit soon. After saying you missed him why not suggest doing something together (don't make it sound like a date though, make it sound relaxed and informal)?. It's quite acceptable for the girl to do this these days and if this guy is as shy as you say he'll need all the help he can get. Good luck!
Hey Danielle,I think you should tell him you like him.Just be friendly about it,like in a cute way just come out and tell him I like you as much as you like me.
If you guys are friends maybe you should decide which is more inportant, your friendship or a relationship. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Its always easier to just get to the point.
If you like him and he likes you back I think you should talk to him and be honest with him.
YES ask him out!! u like him, he likes u! u two belong together! Plz ask him out or i will like jump u LOL!!

luv you like bunches!!
ur bff Niki
ok you can say that you missed him but not in a girlfriend way say it as a friend ok you wouldn`t wanna tell him how much he means to you because then he might make fun of you and act like he doesn`t like you and you might get embaressed ok abd you wouldn`t wanna tell him that you like him until your alone or in a special place then you can do it ok so i hope that you like my advice -Shelly


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